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#TalkTuesday with Memkoh: Finding space for “Another”

Hello #TalkTuesday readers,

I’m yet to get a contribution to this series on my blog and I would very much love to see some participation at this end. If you would rather join the bubbly Instagram crew, follow me @memkoh and be on the lookout for this series, every Tuesday.

Today’s question was submitted by an avid reader and friend. This is a question that plagues many and has at least run through your mind at least once. It is totally relatable and I cannot wait to discuss the responses with my friend to see how they have helped or shaped her new perspective. I said “new perspective” because that is the mission of this series: To make you walk away with a new perspective or a deeper understanding of your perspective on the subject matter.

Ok that’s all for now. Let’s get right into it. 🙂

I know you have unanswered questions. Email them to memkohsblog@gmail.com

  • Comments ( 8 )

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    maakande@gmail.com

    Memkoh, I was gonna write this on the instagram post but i just love my keyboard more than my phone screen!
    So, my opinion is that if you want someone in your life, you should be willing to make some space for them in your life. however, do not put your life on hold just to accomodate them. I am a strong believer in co-independence; so if a girl or guy wants to be in a relationship, they should live their lives as they envisioned it but leave room when they plan their day/week/LIFE for flexibility to allow a full and happy relationship.
    the reason why i say leave room for flexibility as opposed to just leaving room to accommodate the person is that if things don’t work out with that person or you happen to both (or just one of you) in a difficult place because of work/uni or life then you do not feel empty. You really do not want a big void let in your life or heat because you let only that person occupy it (#OccupyMyHeart lol).

    so my advice to the person who askd this question is that please be willing to flex to accomodate him or her in your life but do not let this hinder your happiness or your ambition. This is what i go by in life and i feel i am quite happy with where it has led me.

    all the best 🙂

    • avatar

      Yeeesssss! You get an A star (IGCSE) for this contribution, especially your co-independence mantra. Thank you so so much, Mjay. You were also the first contributor on the blog and keep in mind that I will always share these questions here so your keyboard and yourself can have fun and bless us with more insight.

  • avatar

    maakande@gmail.com

    Memkoh, I was gonna write this on the instagram post but i just love my keyboard more than my phone screen!
    So, my opinion is that if you want someone in your life, you should be willing to make some space for them in your life. however, do not put your life on hold just to accomodate them. I am a strong believer in co-independence; so if a girl or guy wants to be in a relationship, they should live their lives as they envisioned it but leave room when they plan their day/week/LIFE for flexibility to allow a full and happy relationship.
    the reason why i say leave room for flexibility as opposed to just leaving room to accommodate the person is that if things don’t work out with that person or you happen to both (or just one of you) in a difficult place because of work/uni or life then you do not feel empty. You really do not want a big void let in your life or heat because you let only that person occupy it (#OccupyMyHeart lol).

    so my advice to the person who askd this question is that please be willing to flex to accomodate him or her in your life but do not let this hinder your happiness or your ambition. This is what i go by in life and i feel i am quite happy with where it has led me.

    all the best 🙂

    • avatar

      Yeeesssss! You get an A star (IGCSE) for this contribution, especially your co-independence mantra. Thank you so so much, Mjay. You were also the first contributor on the blog and keep in mind that I will always share these questions here so your keyboard and yourself can have fun and bless us with more insight.

  • avatar

    maakande@gmail.com

    Memkoh, I was gonna write this on the instagram post but i just love my keyboard more than my phone screen!
    So, my opinion is that if you want someone in your life, you should be willing to make some space for them in your life. however, do not put your life on hold just to accomodate them. I am a strong believer in co-independence; so if a girl or guy wants to be in a relationship, they should live their lives as they envisioned it but leave room when they plan their day/week/LIFE for flexibility to allow a full and happy relationship.
    the reason why i say leave room for flexibility as opposed to just leaving room to accommodate the person is that if things don’t work out with that person or you happen to both (or just one of you) in a difficult place because of work/uni or life then you do not feel empty. You really do not want a big void let in your life or heat because you let only that person occupy it (#OccupyMyHeart lol).

    so my advice to the person who askd this question is that please be willing to flex to accomodate him or her in your life but do not let this hinder your happiness or your ambition. This is what i go by in life and i feel i am quite happy with where it has led me.

    all the best 🙂

    • avatar

      Yeeesssss! You get an A star (IGCSE) for this contribution, especially your co-independence mantra. Thank you so so much, Mjay. You were also the first contributor on the blog and keep in mind that I will always share these questions here so your keyboard and yourself can have fun and bless us with more insight.

  • avatar

    maakande@gmail.com

    Memkoh, I was gonna write this on the instagram post but i just love my keyboard more than my phone screen!
    So, my opinion is that if you want someone in your life, you should be willing to make some space for them in your life. however, do not put your life on hold just to accomodate them. I am a strong believer in co-independence; so if a girl or guy wants to be in a relationship, they should live their lives as they envisioned it but leave room when they plan their day/week/LIFE for flexibility to allow a full and happy relationship.
    the reason why i say leave room for flexibility as opposed to just leaving room to accommodate the person is that if things don’t work out with that person or you happen to both (or just one of you) in a difficult place because of work/uni or life then you do not feel empty. You really do not want a big void let in your life or heat because you let only that person occupy it (#OccupyMyHeart lol).

    so my advice to the person who askd this question is that please be willing to flex to accomodate him or her in your life but do not let this hinder your happiness or your ambition. This is what i go by in life and i feel i am quite happy with where it has led me.

    all the best 🙂

    • avatar

      Yeeesssss! You get an A star (IGCSE) for this contribution, especially your co-independence mantra. Thank you so so much, Mjay. You were also the first contributor on the blog and keep in mind that I will always share these questions here so your keyboard and yourself can have fun and bless us with more insight.

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